".....A cigar smoking woman is the
perfect woman as far as I am concerned"

The world is a funny place in which we live - the vision of Women smoking has apparently been the crux of desire, manipulated for purposes of self indulgence and uncrupulous behaviour by some!  WHY - I have no idea, and its not gender bias - oh no my friends - there are women who participate in this past time.....and it is has been this charge - disassociation from the "Fetish" that motivates my passion to advocate for the credibility of the true Cigar Woman!

The fine line of balance is dedication to my passion, and my characteristic of fair play. As I continue to explore Women's roles in the cigar community, I discover that change does not come easy.  Some Women have seen enough of the googling eyes, and are fed up with being looked upon in a thirsting and sexual manner. 

Ladies, I don't blame you....

But change never comes easy and will the "Fetish" affiliation ever change.... I'm not so sure....do we retreat back within the shadows.... or, as I advised one concerned member at C4W - stick your middle finger up at the Lookie Loos...and claim your right to be a credible Woman who Smokes Cigars....

Perhaps the change must come within us? 

The greatest difficulty I have is separating the wheat from the chaff - I refuse to label and profile men or women because of their interests, which may not be in line with mine... Will I continue my plight to insure Women have a viable presence among the industry...Yes, without second thought....am I afraid of the "Big Bad Smoking Fetish"?

Hell to the NO!

Onward and upward I say, I'll continue to fight the good fight - Despite my critics...

Thanks my friends for your continuing support!

Luv ya lots, Damsel...